Saturday, February 21, 2009

Healthy Human Sexuality.

Healthy Human Sexuality.

I would like to convey in this article to accept Human sexuality in healthier manner and accept human physical body as it is and not have a perversion to sexuality. I have just put my thoughts in raw satirical writing.

The word “Sex” biologically denotes two entities either masculine or femine and differentiates between male and female. Generally, the word “Sex” is associated with the act of copulation.

In spiritual world, Sex means “Union”. There is one vast non-dual oneness in the existence. Life or Creation exists only in duality of nature. What was one has become two. Duality means life and death, Day and Night, Masculine and Feminine. The conscious being seeks “Union” to become one. Everything in this existence is a reverberation of sound. Our body is just a sound vibration and each one of us has a unique intensity.

Sexuality is a quality that characterizes how appealing one is or to a degree one is attracted to another. Different Individuals have a different sense of perception of Sexuality. Some of them perceive the person sexuality in his/her eyes. Different people have different perception of sexuality depending on their Karmic imprints. If ones awareness is only limited to physical identity the person perceives sexuality only limited to the physical attributes.

People around the world have taken to perversion when it comes to Human sexuality. Too much of attention is paid to the physical attributes. Fashion shows have become perversion, as every model has to be skimpily dressed to sell her designer brand of clothes. Any TV or Magazine advertisement you see has become perversion. Even the Children Cartoon movies show raw sexuality. I could not believe the amount of vulgarity in the Kids cartoon and movies and cannot believe what the Censor board is doing. Any Indian movie song is full of raw sexuality or perversion and is open to family audience and not rated. Almost every song the Hero and Heroine show physical intimacy and almost embrace themselves in to Kama sutra poses. I can understand if there is a censorship and the film is rated for matured audience. The Indian Censorship has a perverted vision, provides Universal rating for vulgar scenes, and free for all kids to watch. Any intimate scene can become vulgar if the scene is not as per the situation or a scene with adult situation when we have kids around.

Why is there so much perversion or distortion to human sexuality? The reason is one is not able to transcend beyond ones physical limitation. When one is in the ambit of physical dimension, perversion is the only way one can be.

What is wrong with the body parts of human being? Why does a sight of women’s breast become an act of perversion or distortion? I personally do not like the word Boobs, Tits, Jug. I like “Bosoms”. “Bosoms” is a wonderful word. I can understand plastic surgery to uplift ones physical image. Why does a women need a boob job or silicone implants in her breast, which makes her, look uglier? The simple reason is she is not able to carry her sexuality well and she needs to fix her breast to look appealing or feel good. Her Breasts and little bit of her cleavage gives her Macho image. Why is so much noice made when a mother breast-feeds her child in public even though she has taken care to cover herself? Even if a little breast is exposed, while breast-feeding what is so wrong in it. Why is the sight of Breast “Nipple” even more act of perversion? There are so many countries where exposing women breast is ok as long as her nipples are covered. What is so wrong in a breast nipple? Why can only men walk bare chested in a beach and why Women cannot exercise the same option? What is pervertly wrong in Women walking bare chested in a beach? Perverted society is the cause for such repression. Men have also gone to the Gym to get seven flab Abs. It is fine to have good Abs. I also crave to have atleast two flat flab Abs, but overdoing oneself just for the pleasure to feel Macho is just too much.

Even the Backside, Rear, Ass, Butt, or to be more polished “Derriere” or "Callipygous" is looked upon with so much perversion. The Ass is just a fleshy part and designed to assist human to sit comfortably without feeling the pain of our bone joints. So much distortion or perversion has gone just over a fleshy piece of Ass. I like the word “Buxom or Callipygous”. Now with the Zero Figure the women hips have become parallel. One rarely get to see a woman with a curvy figure with broad hips and round Callipygous Derriere.

I envy the Germans or some Europeans for their dress code. They have a wonderful sense of body acceptance. The Germans go to office in Suit, tie and Formal dress code and when they are relaxing in the beach or swimming pool or Sauna, they are all bare. No one raises any eyebrow or stares at anyone. It is just accepted normal to be bare. Where has the perversion or distortion gone? It just seemed to disappear when we have learned to accept our physical body the way it is. Even the families and kids have all accepted their body in a healthier manner. I do not want to go in detail of dress code etiquettes when one is enjoying in an Au natural environment. It is understood to be groomed even one is bare. The sight of Beary ASS or Beary Back might be disgusting. It is a good etiquette to be groomed.

There should be no perversion when it comes to Human sexuality.It is like he whole of humanity is sitting in a vehicle and enjoying the scenery from inside the vehicle. Humanity never attempted to take a step to come out of their vehicle to enjoy and experience the magnificient nature. History has always seen period of Renaissance or change but we humans are still in the primitive state when it comes to accepting human sexuality and transcending the physical limitations. Hope for the Renaissance period to begin or flower.

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